But didn't God achieve his goal of making nations and people be in fear of him?
In the scriptures, “fear” means more “respect” than terror. The Israelites were like children, always pushing the boundaries of what they could get away with. Pharaoh, on the other hand, had the free agency and the obligation to free the Israelites in conjunction with God’s will. God could have forced him to, but He didn’t. And if Pharaoh and his court refused to release the Israelites from their forced labor, then the Lord chose to inform him of the consequences. As the representative of the people, he most likely was under tremendous pressure from his constituents to keep the Israelites as forced labor. But he had seen what the Lord could do, and he knew that the Lord could deliver. The question most likely in his mind was whether his own gods were somehow testing him and his resolve. At any moment they might move against the god of these slaves and put Him in His rightful position.
When people and animals die, they simply move on to a different location. It’s only the grief of loss for those who remain behind that makes it so unbearable. And the Egyptians had it coming. The Lord warned them and forewarned them. It was only when they saw the southernmost part of the Israelites’ anatomies did they have second thoughts about freeing them.
If God exists, then we must accept the words of the prophets that He is merciful, kind, just, all knowing, all powerful and benevolent. It is God who sets the boundaries of what is good and what is evil; and we’re indeed fortunate that God is good and that the Universe follows suite. In the beginning, men needed discipline in regards to the Sabbath and other various aspects of their religion. In the days of Jesus, when men had gone too far in the other direction. Then Jesus had to remind them that the Sabbath was made for man and not the other way around. In both cases, it was the fear of God that kept the people in line. But the push was ultimately always towards the center. God wanted the people to regard Him as a loving parent, or even a friend. But first He had to win their respect. Admiration, love and faith would follow.
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